Not sure why but every time I stay with Judy in Plymouth, we have lunch together at the Royal Western Yacht Club where she’s a member. Today it was a most welcome break from all my family’s troubles to spend some time with this lady who has taught me so much just by being who she is:-)

And this visit I’ve been stunned by how much we are the same, Judy and I.

So it’s given me some valuable lessons in how I can help my disintegrated family of origin to move forward once more.